Ep93: The Communication Divide Between the Sexes with Robert Kandell

---

---

As a woman, do you get frustrated that your man never seems to get what you’re saying or where you’re coming from? As a man, do you wish there was a how to manual for understanding women? Have you ever felt like the two sexes seem to speak 2 completely different languages, and there is no app to help you with that. Our exciting guest today is here to help us close that communication divide, so we can create the relationships that we both desire and deserve.

Robert Kandell is an accomplished writer, coach and relationship expert. He understands the challenges of authentic relating in the 21st century. His expertise lies in his ability to take complex situations and give pragmatic, easy to implement practices to improve intimacy and communication, which has helped to build thousands of successful relationships. Robert is also the co-founder of One Taste, which is a consciousness practice of Orgasmic Meditation.
 
Robert believes that people are meant to live orgasmically, where we can reawaken that place of wisdom inside us that we mute over the years, the place that knows what we want and believes that we deserve it. 

Episode Highlights: 

• We are NOT trained to speak or to hear the truth in relationships. 
• It's a co-created issue, not a gender issue. 
• Robert's 5 Step process to be able to have the 'difficult' conversation with your partner. 
• Relationships are a practice. 
• We are dynamic beings, which means we evolve......as well as our partners. 
• We subtley or not so subtley try to keep our partners small, out of fear that they will outgrow us. 
• Presence is the most important aspect a man can evolve for a powerful woman.
• Don't give up on online dating for the singles, but find the site or app that works best for your intentions. 
• Men are acting more like boys and women are acting more like men. 
• Speak your truth in 'real' time. The more powerful your communication will be.
• 'I' statements and staying connected create the deepest form of relationships.
• Jealousy is a warning bell, as it shows you something in YOU that needs to be looked at. 
• Living orgasmically is about getting out of your habits and to live through all your senses. 
• Keep an eye out for Robert's new book in 2018/2019.

Connect with Robert at tufflove.live